I had a talk today with a woman whose heart tells her to come to an ISTA training, but is afraid that it will shake her monogamous happy relationships. Many people, as i see, get this wrong impression that ISTA is all about open relationships, but this is completely not true.
What ISTA is all about is choosing your path of love life from a place of power, freedom and truth to your higher self. Now, many people KNOW in the depth of their hearts that their love life is actually a compromise. That they do not live up to their own truth, to their higher self. They do not actually live LOVE, but merely a mild compromise of it. For these people a good ISTA seminar will shake it all.
“If your monogamous choice is made out of true love” I told this woman, “if you are in your true power in it, if monogamy is not a compromise for your true self, then your relationship will only be strengthened by all the tools you will learn in ISTA”.
In an ISTA training you will learn how to actually SEE the person you love not through tons of old stuff that your psyche projects on them. You will learn how to respect them and their boundaries. You will learn how to respect yourself, and you will clean a lot of shit that is stuck in your sexual-emotional system that you might not even be yet aware of.
All we want in ISTA is for you to truly turn your POWER ON! The rest will be done by itself when your system is not shut off.